ELISHA CHARITY

"I never had him, but he had me. He had all of me."

"It’s been 8 months since I lost you, and it still feels like it’s day one. How is it fair? How am I so hooked on you and you’re so hooked on her? When does this end, when does the hurting stop? Because it feels like it’s been far too long."

"whenever i feel like i’m over you, i find myself crying at 3am trying to lose the feeling of missing you"

"One day you wake up and it’s different. There’s no sinking feeling in your stomach and you feel like you can breathe again. One day you wake up and it just clicks, you don’t care about him anymore. The thought of him being with someone who isn’t you no longer consumes you and you don’t feel the sudden urge to pick up the phone and call him. You feel lighter, you feel free and it’s one of the best feelings in the world because you know you’re ready to move on with your life."

"If I knew the truth I don’t think I’d want anything to do with you, but I don’t think I hate you - although you think I should."

"Don’t ignore the red flags because it’s easier than dealing with what’s happening. If someone wants to be in your life they’ll make an active effort to do so. Don’t settle for less than you deserve because you want things to work with them. Don’t make excuses for them because you don’t want to believe that things are coming to an end. Please stop selling yourself short for someone who doesn’t care. The moment you let go of them your life will slowly get better, you just have to be willing to take the first step of allowing that to happen and that means letting them go because if they were really meant to be with you, you wouldn’t have any doubts, you would know with absolute certainty that your feelings are being reciprocated and you know that with them they aren’t so please for your own sake, let go."

"I’m getting used to not seeing you everyday and that’s just as painful as not seeing you."